Princess Po’s Weekly Adventures

A what a week we have had.  Such fun with all the family. I went to work for a couple of days and then I took Princess Po out and about around our area as I hadn’t done this for her.

It is so fun to go on a walk as I get to walk in two different states where I live. Such a long walk. Hee hee. You can see the picture of the family standing on the gray path. That is actually the border of the two states so half the family was in one state and half the family was in the other state. We had heaps of fun taking photos of this.

We then went into all the shops and looked for things to buy except nothing popped out at us. Certainly saved some money. 

They were desperate to see the beach so we trotted across the road to the beach. Princess Po had seen the beach before a few weeks ago and knew what the sand felt like in her hooves so she raced down to the water with me running after her. Good think I didn’t have a video camera as it looked really funny with me chasing after the fillies.

After romping around in the water we went and sat on a bench where we rested for a while and watched the sunset. You can see in the photos how lovely it was. The sunsets and sunrises are so beautiful where we live. 

We walked back home after this as we were all getting cold. Food shopping on the way home and man can they eat as the shopping bill was quite high. Oh well. I suppose we need to eat and boy do we eat well.

Time for all of us to say good night as it is now very late. Good night from myself, Princess Po and our family.

  

A Day of Gratitude

i have started a gratitude challenge that will go for 365 Days and today is day 3. 

Today I am grateful for money which I consider abundance. I have never had much of a relationship with money as it comes into my life easily and also goes out easily. I was never taught how to budget, look after money, be grateful for money or anything else in relation to money.

Even though I am a casual nurse I still get enough money that I don’t have to panic about not paying my bills or being homeless. It also means that savings can be a problem because if one week is a bit less then any savings needs to pay the bills.

In the past I have really worried about money to the point where there have been times that it has been hard to sleep. 

Today I checked my bank account and then was less money then I thought. I had a few seconds of panic and then I actually laughed at myself. I realised that I have everything I need and that panicking was silly. Even now I can still laugh about it.

I have learnt a few skills in the course I have done and I used them straight away which is what hepled me laugh about my situation. 

All will be perfectly fine and I am so grateful for what I have and for what is coming my way. 

How do you feel about money and are you grateful for it?

Join me on the challenge on my FB page Sacred Blessing Essences 

Why am I not grateful enough?

I should be so much more grateful, so why aren’t I?

I am really blessed in my life even with what has happened. My childhood wasn’t the best although it certainly wasn’t as bad as what I see in the media. My adult life has been reasonable although I have suffered with depression for most of it.

I have felt sorry for myself too many times in my life which hasn’t helped me to see the great things that have happened to me.

Through my job I have travelled parts of Australia and met some lovely people who I am still friends with. I have completed many wonderful courses that have changed my life. I love where I live as I see the river from my balcony and I have a short walk to the beach. I have bought many beautiful things that have helped me through the dark times and I have a wonderful business that is my passion.

Even with all of this I still don’t show enough gratitude. I look after people who have less then I have or their health is very poor and they are happy.

Does this sound like you as well? 

Let’s start a gratitude post for each day. You can find me on Facebook at Sacred a blessing Essences, Universal Wisdom and Happiness, and Naturally Made Expo. On Twitter I am @SacredBlessingE. On Instagram I am Darleen Redman and on Pinterest I am Darleen Redman.

I will start here.

Today I am grateful for: (Day 1 of 365)

  1. My beautiful walk along the river.
  2. Finding a great book that will help me write my program.
  3. That I hired movies to help me laugh.
  4. A beautiful lady in a shop that listened to my story, told me to keep going as she loved my passion and for giving me another idea for a course.
  5. Enjoying beautiful food.
  6. The interaction that I have on my social media sites.
  7. Grateful that my profession gives me the ability to travel.
  8. Finding an agency that will employ me so that I am able to travel.
  9. Having an iPad that helps me keep in contact with everyone.
  10. Enjoying a good beer (One Fifty Lashes).

What are you grateful for. Please feel free to comment and join me on my social media sites.

Take responsibility and research for yourself

Take responsibility for crying out loud. It is time for you to find out what you are putting in your body whether it is through what we put on our hair, what medicines, what treatment, what food etc.

Do you really know what is going in and on your body? Have you researched or are you willing to remain ignorant?

Don’t believe what you read on the Internet as a lot of that is written to scare you and doesn’t have any research behind the article.

I have changed a lot of what I do with my body and I know have removed the majority of chemicals from my life. For me personally I feel so much better and am a happier person which the people around me can contest to.

Removing the chemicals has worked for me and I am not saying it will work for you. I am saying research and see what happens. Who knows, you may feel better for it. One thing though is to really enjoy life no matter what.

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What a freaking journey! Crazy thing is that I will keep going

30 days ago, okay a few more than that, I started the “30 Day Blogging Challenge.” I actually enrolled in the middle of February and it took nearly a month before I started. 

Well once I started, well about a week or so after, I became addicted to blogging and I love it now. I have even discovered a love of writing short stories and eventually I will have my own novel/s. You can find all my short stories here My Short Stories

Every day during the challenge an email is sent with instructions for that day. I haven’t done everything although I have done most as I discovered that I enjoyed having themed days which helped me to plan ahead for the days when I was extremely busy or tired. You can find the link to the challenge here 30 Day Blogging Challenge

I have even started blogging for my filly Princess Po which has been great as I have been getting out and about photographing away. What fun and giggles we have. You can find all the blogs here Princess Po

I first started my blog a year and a half ago but never did much with it as very occasionally I would blog something although I never put much effort into it. The change came when I blogged in December about my depression. It was so great to finally let everyone know what had happened to me as it was so hard keeping the secret. You can find that blog here My Heartbreaking Journey With Depression

After writing that blog I knew I want to blog much more often and it was soon after that that I found the challenge. I was excited and scared at the same time as it meant that people would be reading what I wrote. What a big deal that was. It took a while to start the challenge and when I did well it grew a life of its own and what fun.

Are you wanting to challenge yourself with your blogging? Then this is the blog for you. All I can say is go for it and stretch your comfort zone. You never know what you may find inside of you. 

The Labradorite Crystal

This is one of my favourite crystals and the sphere and Buddha always go away with me on trips along with my Amethyst Sphere and 2 x Rose Quartz Eggs. These babies always play a part when I make the crystal and flower essences. I absolutely adore my crystals and I am so glad that they are in my life.

Attributes of Labradorite:

 💎Protective and a bringer of light.

 💎Raises consciousness and connects with universal energy.

 💎Deflects unwanted energies.

 💎It can take you to another world or into other lives.

 💎Facilitates initiation into the mysteries.

 💎Aligns the physical and etheric bodies and accesses spiritual purpose.

 💎Grounds spiritual energies into the physical body.

 💎Stimulates intuition and psychic gifts, brings messages rom the unconscious mind to the surface and facilitate their understanding.

 💎Banishes fears and insecurities and the psychic debris from previous disappointments.

 💎Calms and overactive mind and energises the imagination, bringing up new ideas. 

 💎Excellent dispelled of illusions, going to the root of the matter and showing the real intention behind thoughts and actions.

 💎Useful for change as it imparts strength and perseverance.

 💎A stone of transformation and prepares the body and soul for the ascension process. 

Healing:

 👼🏻Treats disorders of the eyes and brain.

 👼🏻Relieves stress.

 👼🏻Regulates metabolism.

 👼🏻Treats colds, gout and rheumatism.

 👼🏻Balances hormones, relieves menstrual tension and lowers blood pressure

Position:

 🔮Wear over the higher heart chakra.

 🔮Hold or place as appropriate

Crystal Essence:

Labradorite as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Labradorite has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

1. Taken orally twice a day (This is what I recommend).

2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.

3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.

4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.

5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.

6. Drops placed on top of the head.

7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Labradorite Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com or you can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written and amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.

  

Affirmation: “I embrace my gifts with joy and understand the messages I receive.”

Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

Princess Po’s Weekly Adventures

Ah. Life has gotten so much better sine Princess Po and family entered my life a couple of months ago. I have been getting out more and enjoying life as I am showing them the sites around where I live. 

This week has been a bit hectic as I was working a lot and only got to spend time with them a little bit before and a little after work. It was great to come home to them on Friday as my shift ended up a bit crappy and I got so many hugs from them and our friends on fb. Really made a huge difference to my day.

On Saturday we got up early as we were traveling on a bus and then in a friends car to go to Brisbane. Getting up early was a little hard although we had gone to bed earlier the night before. 

This is Princess Po and King Popo on the bus. They had to be coaxed out of the bag and even then they were still a bit wary.

 

This is a picture of the rest of the family that came, some didn’t want to so they stayed behind.  

We took the bus to Burleigh Heads and then a dear friend picked us up to take us to Brisbane for a beautiful Aromatherapy Date with doTĒRRA Oils.

By the time we got to Burleigh Heads Princess Po and her dad King Popo we’re loving the trip and this was them in the car.  

 

Arriving to my friends house in Brisbane we were greeted by her and shown so much love. She raved over my family and telling me I looked wonderful. Of course we were all chuffed with this. Walking into the house the beautiful smells that were wafting through lifted up us even higher. 

Walking out onto the back verandah all the beautiful oils and brochures were set out beautifully. I was so excited as I have always loved essential oils and to learn even more about them was so enjoyable. 

During the next couple of hours we got to test many of the oils by having them in our waters smelling them or even placing them on our bodies. King Popo has a sore throat and is a bit chesty so we tried three oils in water that was gargled and instantly he felt so much better and even two days later you can hardly tell he was sick at all. We have been following the strict regime with the oils which certainly made the difference. 

I am so excited as the oils I ordered will be arriving in the mail this week and I will be having so much fun experimenting with them and placing them in spray bottles to use in the toilet and when I am working on my business. They will also be going in the soaps and candles that I make and when I am cooking. What a difference this will make to me. 

Well time for us to sign off as we will be going for a walk to the beach now. 

The Frustration!!!!

The frustration is overwhelming at times. The frustration of never having enough money. The frustration of working with people that have never liked you. The frustration of not having a partner. The frustration of not letting go of fears. The list goes on.

I am sitting here in bed still in my pjs wondering what has happened. Has life passed me by? Am I doomed to to keep living this life that I am?

I have all the tools, skills, knowledge and techniques to move this crap on and learn the lessons yet it isn’t happening. Far out. This is ridiculous. Come on for goodness sake. Get a move on.

Hang on a minute. Who are you to tell me what to do? Anyway. Yeah. Who are you?

You don’t know who I am? Well that is just freaking great. You have only been speaking to me for years. Now I am feeling insulted or is it that you don’t want to know because it will scare the crap out of you? Is that it? Huh? Huh?

Crap. No I don’t want to know. Don’t make me. That’s it. Covers going over my head now.

You little shit. You have been seeking my help for so long and now when it is time for you to wake up and see your own reality you go and hide. Get out from under there. Now!!!!!

Argh. No. No. No. Don’t make me look. Shit. Oh god no. It can’t be. 

I don’t want to look at you. Please don’t tell me.

Yes. You know who I am. Come on. Open those eyes. It is okay. You need to understand what is happening and what will happen.

Why do I?

It is time for you to wake up. You have a big job to do and I am here to help you do that.

It’s scary though. How can little old me do it?

Come on sweetheart. I am here to hold you the whole time. I won’t let go. You just need to trust me.

I open my eyes and gently raise them. Oh god. It’s me. No. It’s me from the future and yet I am male. How can that be.

I am the male side of you from the future. The side that you need to embrace to be the powerful human being you are and can be. 

What? Why do I need to embrace you? I am female.

Yes you are. Yet you are also male. You are both. Without one or the other human beings remain unbalanced. There would be so much more happiness and laughter in the world if everyone embraced both sides. How beautiful is it to be one. To be both male and female. To embrace the joys of both. To be whole. To be complete. To be amazing. To be joy. To be laughter. To be a pure soul. Can you feel that? That is you. That is both of you. Look! Look! See the energy? It is gold and silver. Male and female. One and the other.

Oh god. I can barely take it. The energy is too much. It hurts because it is so much love. I don’t know if I can take that much love?

It is okay. Hold my hand. I am with you all the way. Be gentle. Open that beautiful heart of yours and let the love flood in. You can’t break as you are only love. That is all you are. A soul filled with love living in the human body. Have a look around.

At what?

Look. Open your eyes and see what is around you.

What? Who? How?

Ah. You are so beautiful with your wonder. Never loose that. These are the beautiful souls that have always been with you except you have never seen them because you have not been willing to be so open.

Oh my. That’s my boyfriend that died. My grandparents, my uncle. Oh my. I was never that close to my family when they were alive so why are they here now?

They have been through their own transformation when they went back to being a soul and have realised that they need to help you through your own transformation.

What!! Am I going to die? No!

Awwww. Sweetheart. No. The transformation of you waking up and stepping forward in life.

Oh. Thank goodness. That really scares me because even though life sucks at the moment I don’t want to go yet.

Good. We still have so much to do. Okay. Let’s go for a walk and feel nature. We need The energy that the Earth and Sun can give us. Comeon. Up. Up. Up

Ahhhhhhh. What a relief

I am so relieved that that is over. I had been so worried that things wouldn’t work out and I wouldn’t have what I wanted.

I had been planning this since I was little and had been visualising it every day since. It had literally come alive I could feel and breathe it. Ahhhhhh. What a relief.

Can you imagine knowing that something would come true no matter what happened? This is what happened for me.

I had been writing all my life and in the last few years I had been publishing my short stories on my blog. I had been getting a large following as more and more people discovered my stories. My stories were getting shared everywhere on social media with thousands of likes and shares. When I saw the first share I cried as it was my dream coming true.

I loved writing about anything that appealed to my mind and now I can literally make a story out of even a piece of dust. I love seeing my characters come alive on the paper as though they really are alive.

Even though life had thrown a lot of curves at me I kept going knowing that it would happen one day and today was that day.

I raced to the mail box and then realised that it was too big and would be delivered to my front door. I was like a little kid at Christmas and my husband laughed when he seen the look of confusion on my face. Cheeky bugger.

Oh my goodness. That is the door bell. Off I race and nearly trip over the kids toys. Ouch kicked my toe. 

The door!!!! I made it!!! I yank open the door nearly tearing it off the hinges and scaring the post man. I had to giggle at his face. He hands me a tablet to sign and then the parcel. I hug him so hard and he gently back away looking at me warily. I laugh out aloud as the excitement bubbles over.

I race into the dinning room and tear open the package. There it is. My book!!!!!!! My god. I can’t believe it. I am officially a published author. I am holding my book in my hands. I can’t believe it. My hands are shaking. My husband sits down and just holds me. What a precious husband as I start crying in his arms. My dream has come true. 

                  

The difference between men’s and women’s brains

I saw this video on fb the other day and laughed myself silly. It so accurately described the difference between men and women and how their brains work. This is the link to the video here Men’s and Women’s Brains

Men and women do work differently and our brains are wired differently. When we understand and accept this our relationships can become healthier and more harmonious. 

Happiness involves understanding how men and women are made up mentally, emotionally and physically. There are many videos, books and DVDs on the subject.

Do you want to be happy in a relationship? There are many secrets to a relationship and I will go further into this in future blogs.

Enjoy a fun filled day with your partner.

The Base Chakra

I love writing about the Chakras as they are so vital to our well-being and helping to make life and enjoyable experience.  Two week ago I wrote about the chakras and how to feel their energy and you can find that blog here The Amazing Chakras

Today I am going to be writing about the first Chakra which is called the Base or Root Chakra. The first chakra is important as this is the grounding chakra.

Functions:

This chakra helps to channel the energy upwards through the feet and legs to process and stabilise it. It then moves this energy on, up through the spine, now transmuted into a form that the body recognised as signals. This energy balances the endocrine system which comprise of the the gonads, ovaries and testes, through the release of hormones. When we do not get the full flow of this Earth energy, imbalance in our physical body can result.

When we are grounded, we are at one with life and we become intune with the beating heart of Mother Earth. The Base Chakra is associated with returning karma which is the sum of our experiences from previous existences. All karma is there for us to learn from and if we believe we get more than one chance at life then we are fortunate in that we can remember these lessons.

The base chakra act as the energetic recycling bin of our auric field. They change negative emotional energies into power and lights and return to Earth and ‘toxic waste’ that the other chakras cannot deal with, which helps to keep the rainbow purity of the aura. 

Governs: 

The kidneys, adrenals, pelvis, hips, knees, lower back, sciatic nerve and bowel movement.

Colours associated with the Base Chakra: Red

Element associated with the Base Chakra: Earth

Location: Base of spine, spinning down between the legs

Balanced:

Earthly abundance, prosperity, trust in the natural flow of life, stability, ability to relax, health, vitality, ability to let go, sharing, supporting and sustaining the planet and its inhabitants, security, feeling at home, eating slowly, physical and mental flexibility, generosity, optimism. 

Unbalanced: 

Addiction to security, rigid boundaries, hoarding, attachment to material security, greed, stealing, gulping food, obesity, pessimism, waste, vandalism, stagnation, fear of the future and the ability to survive, self-absorption, instability, restlessness, homelessness, escapism, excessive financial worry, poverty, underweight, constipation and low energy.

Physical Communication Style of the Base Chakra: 

Communicates physical and emotional needs through real-life sensory impressions: aches and pains, physical awareness, touches, smells, vibrations, movements, feelings. May involve getting sick as a means to becoming aware of a problem.

Psychic Communication Style of the Base Chakra: 

Conveys informations regarding our mental needs through physical empathy, the registration of physical and feeling based sensations from sources that are perceived as not there. Can includes feelings of pains, illnesses; getting hit with smells, nausea, touches, vibrations that seem to come from nowhere. 

Intuitive Communication Style of the Base Chakra: 

Receives or sends physical sensations that makes us look at a soul or spiritual issue or need, causing us to sometimes experience an imaginary reality, as if we were really there (and yes we were). While these experiences are woven from psychic energies, they usually involve a higher learning and a call for a significant change in lifestyle.

Crystals to help the Base Chakra: Any red crystal or crystal for grounding such as Smokey Quartz, Black Quartz, Blark Tourmaline, Red Coral, Garnet, Emerald, Blue Sapphire, Carnelian, Azurite, Bloodstone, Chrysocolla, Obsidian, Golden Yellow Topaz, Citrine, and Red Jasper.

Tools to help balance the Base Chakra: 

  1. For one month wear as much RED as possible. If nothing else you can just wear red underwear. Place red around the house, red flowers, red candles, wearing a red shawl at home, red shoes etc.
  2. Imagine sitting in a red bubble of energy
  3. Flirt
  4. Be outside for the sunsets. Imagine going into the red, immersing yourself in it.
  5. Listen to music, especially music with drums, bass, tribal beats, belly dancing, feet stomping kind of music.
  6. Dance every day.
  7. Tone a low “oooooh” sound.
  8. Wear or have around you the gems of agate, garnet, red coral, ruby, bloodstone, Smokey Quartz.
  9. Use the Sacred Blessing Crystal Essences of the above.
  10. Use essential oils of cedarwood for grounding and serenity, as well as marjoram and myrrh. To release blockages clove bud oil can help.
  11. Dance, swim, exercise outside in nature, do Tai Chi, garden.
  12. Eat red food and root vegetables. Drink red drinks, red wine.

Questions to ask to see if the Base Chakra needs balancing: (Answer yes or no to the following questions)

  • I exercise regularly
  • My diet is healthy and balanced most of the time
  • I’m comfortable with my level of prosperity and abundance
  • I take time to visit nature on a regular basis
  • I feel good about my body
  • I feel happy about how I earn my living – it is satisfying and enjoyable
  • I focus on today – I feel very connected and grounded to what I am doing at the time.

Affirmations:

I am a beloved child of the universe and I deserve love, peace and security.

I open myself to receive the abundance of the universe.

I am open to receive and accept love.

I am open to receive and be nurtured by the powerful energy of Mother Earth.

I am a physical being and value my physical presences

I resolve to take care of my body and accept it as it is today

I value it as the physical temple in which I live and I will aim to provide for its needs in terms of food, rest, stimulation and general nurturing 

I am open to feeling safe and secure in my surroundings

  

A list of books to help learn more about crystals

I was looking through my book shelf this morning and realised how many great books there are on crystals, how to use them, types of crystals etc. 

Below is a list of books that I personally love and have looked at many times over the years. 

This list is of books that list each crystal separately and mention things like how to wear them, attributes, how they can help healing etc.

  1. The Crystal Bible Volume 1 and 2 by Judy Hall.
  2. Crystals by Rachelle Charman.
  3. Crystal Gems and Minerals by Pamela Robbins.
  4. The Essential Guide to Crystals by Simon and Sue Lilly.
  5. The New Crystal Bible by Cassandra Eason
  6. The Crystals Handbook by Denise Whichello Brown/Judith Millidge
  7. New Crystals and Healing Stones by Judy Hall
  8. Stones of the New Consciousness by Robert Simmons

This list is of other crystal books that talk about how to use them in healings, massage, connecting to crystals, and creating prosperity.

  1. Crystal Healing by Katrina Raphaell
  2. Healing Crystals by Michael Gienger.
  3. Crystal Prescriptions by Judy Hall
  4. The Crystal Experience by Judy Hall
  5. Crystal Prosperity by Judy Hall
  6. Crystal Wands by Ewald Kliegel
  7. Aurum Manus. The “Golden Hands” Method of Crystal-based Holistic Massage by Ricky Welch.

There are hundreds of books on the subject of crystals and these are the ones I have found so far that have helped me on my journey of the love of crystals.

Please feel free to ask questions about crystals and how they can help. You can contact me Darleen Redman @ sacredblessingessences@gmail.com

The beautiful abundant Citrine

Today I will be talking about the beautiful abundant Citrine and as the words suggest it is a stone of abundance. Having a small piece of this in your purse with an affirmation to remind you of your abundance is very useful for a healthy attitude towards wealth and what it really means. I have a few beautiful pieces as you can see in the picture and the rainbows were shining from the crystals.

Attributes of Citrine:

  💎Cleanser and regenerator.

  💎Warming, energising and creative. 

  💎Acts as an early warning system.

  💎Cleanses all the chakras.

  💎Activates the crown and opens the intuition

  💎A stone of abundance and helps you to hold onto your wealth.

  💎Useful for smoothing group or family discord

  💎Raises self-esteem and self-confidence

  💎Enhances concentration and revitalises the mind

  💎Can help to overcome depression, fears and phobias

  💎Promotes joy, overcomes the fear of responsibility and can stop anger

  💎Can help you become emotionally balanced

Healing:

 💎Can help with degenerative disease and Chronic Fatigue

 💎Stimulates digestion, the spleen and the pancreas

 💎Negates infections in the kidneys and bladder

 💎Helps with eye problems

 💎Increases blood circulation

 💎Activates the thymus and balances the thyroid

 💎Relieves constipation and removes cellulite

Position:

 💍Wear on your fingers or throat in direct contact with the skin.

 💎Position as appropriate for healing

 🌕Use a citrine sphere for meditation

 💰Place in the wealth corner of your home or business and in the cash box. The wealth corner is the far back left         point from your front door or the door of an individual room.

Crystal Essence:

Citrine as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Citrine has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

1. Taken orally twice a day (This is what I recommend).

2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.

3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.

4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.

5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.

6. Drops placed on top of the head.

7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Citrine Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com or you can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

  

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written and amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.  

Affirmation: “I love feeling more joy, happiness and energy in my daily life “


Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

Princess Po’s Weekly Adventures

Wow. What a week. I am still reeling over what has been achieved.

This week we having been having loads of fun relaxing, making posters, finding quotes and our usual game of Chickenfoot with out friends. It was on Thursday night this week as it is Easter.

Our week started with attending the election and working as an election officer. What fun that was. Such a great team and so much laughter. It was a very long day, from 5:30 am till 10:30pm and we had about 1400 voters come through. Po and I were so pleased as the majority were genuinely nice people although at the end when we counted there were a lot of invalid votes. Such a shame and I ended up writing a blog about this.

I then ended up working a lot in the week which left Princess Po and family to get up to mischief. I honestly don’t know how they got out of the house and managed to get around. Good thing they didn’t hurt themselves. Cheeky family I have. I can’t complain too much though as I have taught them this. Chuckle chuckle.

We had fun making dinners together that I could freeze for work. I have been teaching my family how to cook so that they can be more self sufficient when I am out. I have been making everything and then leaving it out for them to nibble on during the day. I have had to take them out for walks to walk off the food they have eaten otherwise they will become unhealthy.

I decided that they deserve the treat of going out with me Thursday night. Was funny though as they were walking all around the table playing with the dominoes. Thankfully it was after the round had finished and not during otherwise they would have been in the naughty corner. They got up to so much mischief they ended up getting tired and falling asleep. Po feel over, no she didn’t hurt herself as I caught her, and then went to sleep. That is where I let her stay and yep I couldn’t resist taking a photo. Ha ha ha.

Then came the idea to let the world know about my idea as it is time to bring it out. We are creating and Expo for people that make natural products and I have created a page to keep people informed of what is happening. If you would like to know more than you can click on this link Naturally Made Expo

Wishing you all a wonderful week from myself, Princess Po and family. 

  

Oh no!

What happened? It was all going so well. Awwwwww crap here we go.

It was only this morning and so much has changed. I awoke to the beautiful sunrise and felt a real urge to paint. Out of bed and straight to my canvas. 

I had already started painting another picture but I didn’t care. I had to get this picture onto the canvas before I lost it. I was in another country with no camera or phone to capture the beauty.

I worked for ages as the picture totally consumed my thoughts and feelings. Could I capture the beauty I wondered. Would it matter if I didn’t?

It feels like the picture is coming alive now. The colours are so vibrant and the sky is on fire.

Fire? Fire!!!!!

Get out the voice in my head said. I was trying so hard and then I looked down. I was chained to the bed and had forgotten.

What could I do?

What are your morning habits?

Ah the joy of mornings, not!!!!!!

I am not a morning person and never have been. If I have to get up early to go somewhere then I make sure I set the alarm, otherwise I will most definitely sleep in.

Even though I am not a morning person I do have some habits that I do every day.


Looking at my vision board: 

I love looking at my vision board which is straight across the bed from me. The reason as it is my life vision board. It has everything on it that I love about life.

Affirmation of the day:

I love saying “What great adventures will I have today?” This comes from Dain Beer of Access Consciousness. It is all about being conscious of who we are and what we are saying to ourselves.

Brushing my teeth before eating:

During the night our body is doing amazing things and if we eat before brushing then we are brushing those germs into our stomach with the potential for making us sick.

Having a shower before facing the world:

I am a person that needs a shower to help wake me up. I love the feel of the running water over my body as it helps me to visualise releasing anything that may have cropped up since waking.

After this I can face the world. Woohoo.

What is your morning routine? Why not let me know in the comments.

Respect? What the freak is it?

Respect yourself and others will respect you. Confucius

Something happened today that made me question what respect is

I have started a new page to advice people about the expo that I am creating and I then had people decide that they could post their products on my page without even a hello or can I do this. I consider that so rude and plain disgraceful.

I have had it happen on my other pages which is why I stopped allowing people to post on my pages.

Respect for others guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners. Laurence Stern

It did make me think about what was happening in my life and where I am not respecting myself. What is happening outside happens inside. This means that what is happening in my world is happening inside of me.

When I first learnt about this it literally rocked my world. I actually had a real say over how to change my world. I then had to learn how to understand this and what I could do to continually change my world for the better.

Tonight I am critically looking at my life and seeing where I don’t respect myself. Tough freaking lesson and it hurts.

If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only be self-respect will you compel others to respect you. Fodor Dostoyevsky

A very personal post

I have had many ups and downs since acknowledging my depression. Today was a day where I was up most of the day and then felt down.

I had been on a Webinar with a dear lady who asked me how I was. This simple question caused me to become very teary and emotional. I suddenly felt so lonely as I don’t have that special relationship I am longing for.

I love my friends and I am so grateful for their friendship except it doesn’t fill that hole of that special relationship. It is hard when you see people in happy relationships and yes I know that nothing is perfect. Yet, when I am surrounded by people that are happy it brings up the lonely feelings again. It hurts so bad at times that I feel the pull into the dark place where that blooming black dog lives. 

Even people who are in the same place don’t understand what I am going through and what hurts even worse is when they say things like “It is okay, you will find someone eventually,” “It doesn’t matter if you don’t find a man, you have many friends,” or even “You may never find a man so get comfortable with yourself.” Gee thanks heaps. That really helps. What a load of crock. 

Don’t ever, every try to make a person feel better by saying things like this or anything else. Just freaking listen to them and let them get it out. Having someone listen to you when you are feeling down like this can really help to lift you up. If you tell them crap like above you could risk them never coming to you for help or even helping you when you need it. Even worse they could spiral down and not come back up.

  

Tonight when I felt that pull instead of sinking into it I called a friend of mine. After talking it through the conversation took an upward swing and we ended up laughing a lot. 

I still feel a little sad and teary and instead of wallowing in it and letting it take me down I am embracing it and feeling grateful that I can understand what is happening and why.

If I hadn’t picked up that phone I certainly wouldn’t be in a place where I could write a blog about my personal feelings. 

Next time someone comes to you, listen instead of offering help.

  

Smokey Quartz

I love Smokey Quartz as it is such a versatile crystal. The main reason I love it is that it is so grounding which is great for me and my clients. When I am teaching or healing I can raise my vibration very high and I need to ground to then be able to sleep or work afterwards. A dear friend of mine had this essence and after she had finished working on a client the client was still very ungrounded. My friend placed a couple of drops under the tongue and immediately the client was grounded. This is one of the reasons why I love my crystals and crystal essences so much.

Attributes of Smokey Quartz: 

  Smokey Quartz is great for grounding and at the same time raises vibrations during meditation.

  It assists in tolerating difficult times.

  Smokey Quartz grounds spiritual energy and gently neutralises negative vibrations.

  It brings in positive vibration.

  It teaches you how to leave behind anything that no longer serves you.

  Smokey Quartz relieves fear, lifts depression, and brings emotional calmness.

  It promotes positive, pragmatic thought.

  Aids in clearing the mind for meditation.

Healing:

  Having the Smokey Quartz pointing out from the body during a healing can prevent a healing crisis.

  It can be particularly effective for ailments of the abdomen, hips and legs.

  It can relieve pain, including headaches.

  Smokey Quartz can benefit the reproductive system, muscle and nerve tissue, and the heart.

  Can dissolve cramps, strengthens the back and fortifies the nerves.

  This crystal can aid assimilation of minerals and regulate liquids within the body.

Position:

  1.   Can be placed anywhere but especially good at the base chakra and at the feet during a healing.
  2.   To dispel stress, place a stone in each hand and sit quietly for a few moments.
  3.   Place over the painful point to dissolve pain.
  4.   Place point away from the body to draw off negative energies, and point towards the body to energise.

            

Crystal Essence:

Smokey Quartz as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Smokey Quartz has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

1. Taken orally twice a day (This is what I recommend).

2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.

3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.

4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.

5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.

6. Drops placed on top of the head.

7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Clear Quartz Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com or you can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written and amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.



Affirmation: “I love being grounded, happy and calm throughout the day”

Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

Princes Po’s Weekly Adventures

Celebration time. Woohoo

I love celebrating and especially when I get to celebrate with friends and family. It was a bummer that I had to work on my birthday this year except I got to celebrate a couple of times this week. Yeah. Life is great.

Princess Po came out to dinner with myself and my friends yet was to shy to be photographed. Not sure why. Maybe it was because there were two people she hadn’t met before. She get the introverted, shy bit from me as that is how I used to be before stepping forward and yelling “This is me. Love it or not.” That was a long time ago now.

My birthday was on Friday and Thursday night I went out with my lovely friends to celebrate the day. This is a photo me all done up and of all of us having fun.

  

Loads of fun and laughter was had that night. A great meal and then a lovely birthday cake at the end. I love my friends as they always make me feel so special. 

On Friday I had to work and I had many birthday wishes from everyone I worked with. It is so lovely that people do that. Princess Po came with me to make sure that I had a good day at work. I had to sneak her in as she is not allowed to go into work anymore due to her being a filly. We giggled lots at work as we were getting up to mischief and no one found out. Hee hee. Cheeky us.

Friday night Princess Po and our family helped me celebrate with loads of fun, laughter, dancing and food. I received birthday cards in the mail and they helped me open them. It is so lovely to still receive mail the old fashioned way. There is something special about opening physical mail and when you have cheeky fillies that rip it open with their teeth it is even more fun.

I was naughty as I ate chocolate afterwards in front of the family. Fillies can’t eat chocolate as it is bad for them and they can get very sick. I got a lot of looks and telling off from Princess Po especially. Ouch. Certainly told me what she thought. 

I turned the music up load to block that out and then we danced for ages and ages. Wow my filly family can really dance. Who knew. We went to bed after this as it was getting late. I am so grateful to Princess Po and family for helping me celebrate my special day.

 

Find joy in every moment and celebrate everything. Love life. Darleen Redman  

Make your vote count!!!!!!

I don’t understand. You complain and yet do nothing???? Why not????

I do not understand why people complain about who is in parliament and yet when it comes to voting they stuff it up so their vote doesn’t count.

I have worked as a Declaration Election Officer and I have seen it time and time again. So many votes become invalid due to intentional errors and yet these people still complain about the government. You have no right to complain when you do this. 

I have seen it all. People write that a certain political party is crap, draw through the whole lot, put the number one for everyone, use the alphabet instead of numbers, and I have seen people tape a essay to the ballot paper (they had typed it and brought their own tape). This does nothing as these papers need to be placed aside and not counted. 

The parties never see what has been written as they are not concerned with that. Instead they are concerned with the count only.

What can you do to make your vote count:

  1. Ignore the ads.
  2. Do your own research.
  3. Make sure you are on the role. In Australia check you are on the role for the local council, state and federal roles.
  4. Listen clearly to the instructions given by the election officials
  5. If you are unsure ask.
  6. Follow the instructions to the letter.
  7. Place the ballot paper/s in the correct box/s
  8. Do not place the ballot papers in the bin.

What else can you do to make a difference

  1. Find out who your local member is.
  2. Make an appointment to see them with any issues.
  3. Write or email the members of parliament 
  4. Get involved in the elections (There are many positions to be filled).

One person can make a difference. Are you going to be that person? Darleen Redman

The Amazing Chakras

I love working with the chakras and I use a lot of crystals on my clients when I am conducting a healing that are specific for each chakra. I have learnt this after completing courses and with a lot of practice I have become very experienced at conducting crystal healings.

A chakra is literally a spinning wheel of vortices of energy that penetrate our aura and into our physical body. We have seven major chakras and many minor chakras.

Many people can feel the chakras and some people can actually see and hear the chakras. I am blessed to be able to feel and sometimes see the chakras and more is opening up to me as I totally embrace my gifts.

Feeling Energy.

  1. To start feeling the chakras we need to learn how to feel energy.
  2. Hold your hands out in front of you with your palms facing each other about 12cms apart.
  3. Bring your hands together very gently and slowly.
  4. You can feel a subtle change, like a soft cushion, as the energy of one hand meets the other.
  5. Play with this energy and have fun with what you can feel on yourself and others.

Next Thursday I will go into the first chakra in depth and each Thursday after that I will go through each chakra in depth. Enjoy playing with the energy.

Miracles are everywhere

Did you know that a miracle is a change is perspective? Wow. Now you can see that miracles are everywhere and in every moment.

I experiences miracles every day especially at work. I may get told something and just by listening to my body and tuning in I decide whether it is true or not.

Through the Medical Intuitive Courses I have attended and now teach is how I learnt how to listen to my body. I have learnt through these courses simple techniques, skills, tools and knowledge that help me to experience these miracles every day. This then brings more joy, peace, laughter and happiness into my daily life.

If you would like to know more about these courses please feel free to contact me on my email at sacredblessingessences@gmail.com

Wishing you a beautiful day filled with miracles.

   

 

Amethyst

This is the third in the series of Crystals. The beautiful sphere pictured has done so much for me and always comes travelling with me there was one day that I just couldn’t leave the house as I felt something was missing and then I realised that I didn’t have my crystals with me.

Attributes of Amethyst:

  It guards against psychic attack, transmuting the energy into love.

  Enhances spiritual awareness, opens intuition and enhances psychic gifts.

  It can calm or stimulate the mind as appropriate.

  During meditation, it turns thoughts away from the mundane into tranquility and deeper understanding.

  It helps to facilitate the decision making process, bringing in common sense and spiritual insights, and putting decisions and insights into practice.

  Can protect against recurrent nightmares.

  Amethyst can help enhance memory and improves motivation, making you more able to set realistic goals.

  Balances out the highs and lows, promoting emotional centering.

  Alleviates sadness and grief, it supports coming to terms with loss.

Healing:

  Amethyst can boost production of hormones, and tune the endocrine system.

  It can strengthen the cleansing and eliminating organs and immune system.

  Amethyst can relieve physical, emotional, and psychological pain or stress.

  It can ease headaches and relieve stress.

  Amethyst can treat insomnia and bring restful sleep.

  It can help to balance and connect the physical, mental and emotional bodies, linking them to the spiritual

Position:

  Can be worn anywhere.

  Clusters and geodes can be placed into the environment (it can fade in sunlight).

  Single points are used in healings. Point inwards for drawing energy in, away from you to draw energy off.

  For insomnia or nightmares, place under the pillow.

                   

Crystal Essence:

Amethyst as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Amethyst has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

1. Taken orally twice a day (This is the one I recommend).

2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.

3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.

4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.

5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.

6. Drops placed on top of the head.

7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Amethyst Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com oryou can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written an amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.



Affirmation: “I am grateful that I can remain calm in stressful situations to be able to make decisions”

Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

Princess Po’s Weekly Adventures.

After the dissapointment of last week when we found out that she couldn’t work in the hospital we decided that it was time for a bit of fun.

We went out and about and I discovered that there was more filly’s that needed to be adopted. Well, our family has certainly grown. I can not believe how many of us there is.

I am going to introduce you to Prince Gideon and yes they are now an item although they are taking it slowly considering Princess Po is still in a delicate place after being told she couldn’t work in the hospital.

I decided to take both of them to the beach and what fun we had, splashing around in the water. I certainly got a few strange looks but I was having so much fun that I barely noticed. I am having so much fun that my mood lifts right up each time I spend with my family. 

There was a surf carnival on so I also got to have some fun watching the scenery. This is a picture of Princess Po and Prince Gideon getting ready for the day at the beach. Well time for me to go and have some more fun. Wishing you a wonderful day filled with love and laughter. By from the Filly family. 

Always listen to your body. It will never do you wrong

Why the heck didn’t I listen to my body? Would have saved a lot of money and heartache.

I went to see my regular beautician who unfortunately wasn’t available and then went to see another one. That one was also not available but they directed me to across the centre. When I went there they we free but I was then directed to a chair!!!! I have never been in a chair for a beautician and my body was screaming out no, no, no.

I asked if they had a room they used and thankfully they had just bought the shop across the centre. We then went into that room. Before the lady had even started she asked what I wanted done. This set of alarm bells as I have had my beautician always say how about this, this and this and this is the reason why. That was the second time I didn’t listen to my body even though it was screaming.

When they lady started my body started screaming again as she barely used and wax and instead plucked. Even though it was just my eyebrows it hurt. In the past I have had them plucked a little but mainly waxed. I had to tell her three times that they were uneven and too thin and still they were uneven. When she told me the price I nearly died as it was a lot more than I am used to. I questioned this and she didn’t budge.

When I got home there were a lot of hairs that were left behind so I had to pluck them myself. If I had just listened to my body I would have saved a lot of money and heartache. Next time I will except I will be booking in regular appointments with my beautician so that I don’t go through this again.

If your body screams at you, please listen to it as it may save you money and heartache.

Sometimes all you can do is accept it and move on.

What can we do? What do we do? What the heck should we do? Why should we do anything at all?

We all go through crap in our lives and learning how to deal with that is a big thing. There are many things out there that we can do depending on what exactly is happening. This is why I love what I do so much as I can help turn a persons life around.

What about the times when we have done everything and still things are the same? These are the times that we need to take a long hard long at what is happening and what we have been doing? Is this situation healthy for is? If not why are we still in it?

Yes, there are times we need to walk away from people and situations without a back ward glance.

Harsh? Hell yeah. Sometimes we need a slap in the face to wake us up. 

I have received a few slaps in the face. Not physically but metaphorically. I have said goodbye to many friends along my path as I was changing and realised that I needed different people around me.

Do you need a slap. SLAP. There you go. Review what is happening and maybe it’s time to walk away.

Sometimes all you can do is accept it and move on.  Darleen Redman 

Rose Quartz

This is the second in the Crystal Series and today I talk about one of my favourite crystals Rose Quartz. I have two beautiful eggs (the ones pictured) by my bed and if we go travelling then they must come with me.

Attributes of Rose Quartz:

  Rose Quartz is the stone of unconditional love and infinite peace.

  One of the most important crystals for the heart and heart chakra as it teaches the true essence of love.

  Purifies and opens the heart at all levels, and brings deep inner healing and self love.

  It is calming, reassuring, and excellent for use in trauma and crisis.

  Rose Quartz gently draws off negative energy and replaces it with loving vibes.

  It strengthens empathy, sensitivity and aids the acceptance of necessary change.

  A great stone for mid-life crisis.

  Holding the Rose Quartz enhances the positive affirmations.

  Promotes receptivity to beauty of all kinds.

  Rose Quartz opens your heart so that you become receptive.

  Rose Quartz teaches you how to love yourself.

  Encourages self-forgiveness and acceptance, and invokes self-trust and self-worth.

Healing:

  Rose Quartz can strengthen the physical heart and circulatory system.

  Releases impurities from body fluids.

  Placed on the Thymus, Rose Quartz aids chest and lung problems.

  It can heal the kidneys and adrenals and alleviate vertigo.

Position:

  Worn over the heart and thymus.

  Placed in the relationship corner of the room.



Crystal Essence:

Rose Quartz as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Rose Quartz has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

1. Taken orally twice a day (I recommend this one).

2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.

3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.

4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.

5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.

6. Drops placed on top of the head.

7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Rose Quartz Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com or you can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written and amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.

Affirmation:  I am thankful that I can see inwards and find the love that is always there

Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

Princess Po’s weekly adventures

Last week I wrote about how Princess Po came to be in my life and you can find the story at this link How Princess Po came to be in my life. It is such a wonderful story.  This week Princess Po came to work with me as she had completed her annual checkup and passed with flying colours.

The little minx was so helpful and caring looking after the patients after they had come out of surgery. She comforted them, dried their eyes, helped me place their observations (pulse, blood pressure etc) into the computer we use, made beds and chatted to the other staff. The staff have gotten so used to her and look forward to when she comes into work with me. 

She picked up the skills so quickly as a lovely nurse showed her how to make a bed and off she went and made the beds for the rest of the day. They were so neat and tidy that my boss asked me who did such a great job. Well, me proud as a punch, stated that it was Princess Po who was the amazing filly making the beds. My boss was slightly taken aback with that but then realised what an asset she is and has recommended that Princess Po go to University and become a Registered Nurse. Well blow me down. I was so delighted.

During our breaks Princess Po got to meet some of the other staff including the surgeons, anaesthetists (they put you to sleep), other nurses and operating assistants. They all fell in love with her and want her to come back to work for them. How delightful is that. 

It was such a lovely time having Princess Po at work with me but then it came to an end unfortunately as we found out that she can’t work in the hospital as she is a Princess. We were so devistated with this news and decided we needed to go out and see our friends. That is a story for another week as I am still a bit upset that Princess Po can’t work anymore. 



This is Princess Po at work with me. What a treasure. 

Heartache

Why didn’t I know? That is a question I have been asking myself since Friday Night. I should have known. 

Last year I posted about my journey with depression which you can read here My heartbreaking journey with depression

I wrote that I called out for help but I wasn’t heard. This was really devastating for me as I thought my friends that I called would have helped. Two nights ago I was at a friends place for dinner and a game called Chickenfoot. I showed my friends my blog about my depression and they turned to me and said why didn’t I turn to them for help. 

This shocked me. I honestly didn’t even think about calling them for help. I think one of the reasons was that I had met one of the dear ladies when we did a course together and then met the others when I joined the Chickenfoot game. Also they are quite a few years older then me and I didn’t think they would understand.

I now know how wrong this was of me. The people that I didn’t think could help me were the ones that would have helped me at my darkest hour. During my depression I was blind and turned to people that couldn’t help me as they were going through their own hell. I was blind to who could really help me. I won’t make that mistake again.

You never know who can help you during a crisis so never rule anyone out like I did.



Raising a Guide Dog puppy. An outsiders perspective.

I totally respect anyone who takes on the responsibility of raising a Guide Dog. My dear friend Jenny and her husband Pete have raised two puppies in the last two years for the Guide Dogs Association. Wow. What a responsibility. If anyone thought it would be like raising any dog well you would be in for a surprise. Firstly, there are so many rules that you must follow when raising a puppy as they grow up to be a very responsible dog who literally gives the vision impaired person their life back. Secondly, that puppy is with you 24/7 as the training does not stop. Can you imagine doing this? After seeing what my friends went through I couldn’t. Thirdly, you have to give this puppy back after a year. Can you imagine how hard it would be to do this after loving this gorgeous puppy? I certainly couldn’t. This is a picture of beautiful Noel who only a couple of days ago went back to the Guide Dogs Association to go through the next stage of his training. I will miss this cheeky little fellow. IMG_5358-1

Simple easy way to read oracle cards

Have you bought oracle cards and just dabbled in them for yourself? Would you like a simple way of reading them and then stepping up to the level of reading for others.  In this blog I will show you a simple step-by-step way of reading oracle cards.

Step by step instructions:

  1. Ignore what is written (the message) on the cards as you will be using your intuition.
  2. Pick a card and look at the image.
  3. What colours do you see? What do those colours mean for you?
  4. What symbols do you see? What do those symbols mean for you?
  5. What animals do you see?  Are the animals doing anything in particular? What do those animals mean for you?
  6. If there a human being? Are they male or female? Are they younger or older? Where are they looking? Are they sitting on anything such as a chair/horse/carriage etc? Are they holding anything? What are they wearing?  What emotion are they displaying on thier face? What does all of this mean for you?
  7. Are there numbers on the card? What do those numbers mean for you?
  8. What environment is on the card such as water, field, inside, outside etc? What does this mean to you?
  9. If there is water, is the water a river, sea, pond etc? Is it running? Are they under water, on top of the water, next to the water? Is there anything in the water? What does all this mean for you?
  10. If there is a field, what is in the field? How long is the grass? Are there animals? Is there equipment in the field? What does all this mean for you?
  11. Is it inside? What kind of building is it? What is in there? What does all this mean for you?

Practice this with every card in the deck and you will be able to tell a story about each card.

Other things when readings cards for other people:

  • Lots and lots of practice.
  • Read for family and friends as practice but make sure there is an exchange of money as this is telling the universe that you love reading the cards and love how you can show respect to your client by accepting the money. By refusing the money you are not allowing your client to have the experience of this.
  • Journal about each card as much as you can. You want the deck to become like your family and know them intamitely.
  • Become great at one spread before learning another. The simplest is a Past, Present, Future.
  • The biggest thing is to be like a child and have loads of fun.

Wishing you all the best with reading the oracle cards. I have placed one here as practice for you.

We all need happiness in our life. How do we get it!!!!

If in our daily lives we can smile, if we can be peaceful and happy, not only we, but everyone will profit from it. Thich Nhat Hanh

Happiness is something we would all love to have more of in our lives as we know how great it is for our health. Happiness certainly helps us to live longer and enjoy each moment in our life. How do we create more happiness in our life? In this post I will provide you with simple everyday things you can do to bring more happiness into your life.

The difficulties and hardships we face in life can be the making of us and provide the happiness we crave in our life. When we appreciate the difficulties and hardships in our life we are letting the universe and everyone else know that no matter what is thrown at you, you will turn around and say “yeah, whatever.”  I know you are all probably thinking that I have lost my mind in telling you this and I have no idea what I am talking about. I can tell you with absolute conviction that I do know what I am talking about. Since I was very little I have been thrown many difficulties and hardships and now, most of the time, I can now say “yeah, whatever.” You can read about my latest difficulty in my post titled “My heartbreaking journey with depression.”

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Simple daily activities to invite happiness into your life.

  1. Change one thing about the way you begin your day. What can make it easier to get going on a positive note when you wake up?  The mood you wake up with sets the scene for the rest of the day so it is very important to start well. Here are a few ideas to help.  A) You could hang up a notice to yourself  with something that will make you laugh when you look at it.  B) Would you be happier in the morning if you had prepared the night before such as having your clothes out ready?  C) Why not set your alarm for ten minutes earlier  so that you can have a more leisurely start.  D) Having positive affirmations that you see as soon as you wake up. E) Placing a card with the words “What great adventures am I going to have today?” can help you to place yourself  into a an anticipatory mood where you see everything as an adventure.
  2. Become positively aware.  A) Be on the lookout for anything of a positive nature such as a person’s smile. B) Pay it forward such as buying a cup of coffee for someone else. C) Notice how other people ignore a put down or negative comment. By focusing on the positive your mood lifts.
  3. A pocketful of smiles. When you are feeling down remember a time that was filled with laughter, a joke or anything else that can make you laugh.
  4. Make time for yourself each day by slowing down.
  5. Have experiences that make you happy.
  6. Think of the happiest person you know and find out what they do to be happy.
  7.  Taking three deep breaths before reacting to a situation. This helps to change the vibration in your body to a higher level.
  8. At the end of each day do a happiness score, determine what made you happy, what didn’t, what went well. You can then journal to help make sense of the day.

These are simple techniques that you can do every single day. Enjoy bringing more happiness into your life.

Optimism is an attitude that buffers people against falling into apathy, hopelessness, or depression in the face of tough going.  Daniel Goleman

Clear Quartz. The clarity you seek.

I have had a beautiful relationship with crystals for many years now. I do love shiny things though (giggle, giggle). I love how crystals can really help to shift my “stuff” when I am going through it. The crystals assist me in many ways including in healings. 

Today I wanted to talk about the lovely crystal called Clear Quartz. This is a crystal that is unique in that it can become any crystal you want it to be. If you don’t have a certain crystal you can program a Clear Quartz to be that crystal for the time that you need it (no longer than a month though as the crystal needs to be cleansed). The clarity in Clear Quartz is so beautiful as I am constantly amazed at what I see each time I look at the crystal.



Attributes of Clear Quartz:

  1. It absorbs, stores, releases, and regulates energy.
  2. Holding a Clear Quartz in your hand doubles your biometric field.
  3. Dispels static electricity.
  4. It takes the vibrational energy to the most perfect state possible, going back to before the dis-ease set in.
  5. Cleanses and enhances the organs and subtle bodies, acting as a deep soul cleanser.
  6. Raises the energy to the highest possible level.
  7. Enhances psychic abilities and attunes you to your spiritual purpose.
  8. Filters out distraction.
  9. Aids concentration and unlocks memory.

Healing:

  1. Quartz is a master healer and can be used for any condition.
  2. It stimulates the immune system and brings the body into balance.
  3. Excellent for soothing burns.
  4. Quartz harmonises all the chakras and aligns the subtle bodies.

Position:

Clear Quartz can be placed anywhere on the body.

Crystal Essence:

Clear Quartz as an essence is a powerful tool that can be taken in a number of ways. The way the essence has been made is that the Coear Quartz has been placed in water for a certain amount of time. This water is then placed in a dark bottle with a preservative (I use Vodka).  This then gets divided into stock and dose bottles and the client is given a dose bottle.

How the essence is taken:

  1. Taken orally twice a day.
  2. Placed in a glass of water and drunk immediately.
  3. Placed on the food you are going to be eating straight away.
  4. Placed in a bottle with aromatherapy to be used as a spray.
  5. Placed in the bath to be beautifully soaked in.
  6. Drops placed on top of the head.
  7. Drops placed on the skin and gently rubbed in.

If you would like to know more about the Clear Quartz Essence I have created feel free to contact me at my email address darleen.redman@gmail.com or you can personal message me through my Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences 

Would you like to know more about crystals? My beautiful friend and teacher has written and amazing book called Crystals by Rachelle Charman.



Affirmation: “I love the clarity that I am receiving each and every day”

Disclaimer: At no time does this information replace the need to seek medical advice. If you have any symptoms please seek medical advice before commencing any essences or other alternative medical treatment.

How Princess Po came to be in my life

I can not believe it is already two months since Princess Po came into my life. It all happened on a beautiful day when I decided to go grocery shopping. I had a list in my head of the essential items that I needed as I wanted to make sure I didn’t buy anything I didn’t need.  It started out beautifully until I went down the isle where the notebooks were. As I am going down the isle I was pulled over to the children’s section and there she was. Packaged beautifully in a shiny bright package with the word filly on it.  Well I just had to buy her. I couldn’t resist that shiny, shiny package and in the basket she went.

I finished my shopping so quickly and raced home. I couldn’t tear the package open quick enough and when I did there was a sigh of relief. From myself and my new filly. Well she is a beautiful filly and when I looked at the name I had given her I distinctly heard a voice saying that is wrong. Well that surprised the crap out of me and when I looked at her there was a smile on her face. I knew then that I needed to come up with a name for her. For the life of me I couldn’t think of one and then I knew. Take her to work and my colleagues would help me.

Well off to work we went and we both were so excited as I could show her off to everyone. Well. Didn’t quite work out the way I expected when I got to work. Some people looked at me a bit strange, although I am used to that (my nickname is Clown Nurse). One lovely lady though took a shine to my filly and quickly came up with the name Princess Po. I heard the loudest YES in my head that I nearly fell off the seat. That was the name. Woohoo. I was so excited as I could now call her my her name.

Well after that she decided that she needed a check up from me and my fellow colleagues so here are a couple of photos of Princess Po getting a check up.

                                                             

This is Princess Po on the box that holds the medicine cups. She knew that she would be taking medicine shortly and wanted everyone to know that it is okay and perfectly alright to take the medicine. What a wonderful filly.



Here she is taking her tablets. They went down so easily and Princess Po was a true Princess in every sense of the word. She is such a lovely filly and a great patient. Thank you Princess Po.



Here she is getting her temperature taken. Shocked me a little until I realised that as a filly her temperature is totally different to me. I had to Google to find out what normal was for her and thank goodness she was in the normal range. After this I had a few more colleagues coming up wanting to have a look at Princess Po as she was getting totally fussed over now. She certainly turned a few heads that day and since then.

We had such a great day at work helping everyone one out although it was tiring for Princess Po as she wasn’t used to such hard work like I am. We went home and just rested watching some telly after eating dinner. Then it was time for bed. 

Since that day Princess Po and I have been having such wonderful adventures but that is for another day.

From Princess Po and I wishing you a fantastic day filled with loads of love and laughter.

What do you attract in your life?

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We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world. The Buddha

I am getting so frustrated with life as I am attracting what I am thinking. Man that sucks. I want to attract everything I desire and it isn’t happening. I now understand why as I have been looking at all of my thoughts since I have admitted to being depressed. I can now see why I haven’t attracted what I truly desire. Yes I do have fantastic thoughts but whenever a negative thought comes along I was concentrating on that instead of looking at the thought and then letting it go with gratitude.  When you are in a state that is not serving you then you focus on the negative thoughts much more than the positive thoughts.

I don’t make New Years Resolutions as I know that I don’t follow through on them. Instead I like to say thank you everytime something wonderful happens. There are days that I am fantastic at it and other days not so good at it.

If I want to attract what I truly desire I am going to have to continually keep an eye on my thoughts and ask for help from my friends when needed. That is the only way that life is going to continually get better for me.

What are some things you can do to attract what you desire?

  1. Keep a continual check on your thoughts.
  2. Keep a journal of your day.
  3. Ask for help as needed.
  4. Do courses that are going to help you with your thoughts.
  5. Do what you really love doing.
  6. Be creative as we need to nurture both our left and right brains.
  7. Be with friends at least weekly.
  8. Include more of what makes you happy each day.
  9. Exercising helps to produce more of the happy hormones.
  10. Having a healthy diet helps to shift through your “stuff” quicker.

These are just some ways that we can attract more of what we desire. Yah. Time for us to create an amazing life.

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What you post affects everyone in a good or bad way

Social Media has such a large impact on our lives now that we are not even conscious of it anymore. Are you aware of how much what you post can affect a person?

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It is very interesting looking at what people post on Social Media and especially Facebook with the posters that get shared. I have noticed lately that there is a real trend to post anything to do with the words stupid, idiot and many other negative derogatory words. Why would someone post something like that? What pleasure would you receive from posting these posters?

I am very careful about what I post on my pages, personal and business, as I know the impact it has on people from personal experience. I will only post something that is funny, uplifting, positive, powerful, wisdom and loving and if I see anything negative on my personal timeline I delete it. On my business pages I will delete anything that a person has posted if it doesn’t fit with what I want my pages to feel like. I have had many people thank me for being such an uplifting and inspiring person and to continue posting what I do as it has helped them get through hard times and keeps them going.

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You may not understand the concept yet, although it has be talked about and written about a lot, but what you put out there whether it is said or written you attract. Why would you post about people being idiots or laughing because they are stupid. Everybody has their own path and no one is stupid or an idiot. There are unawakened and awakened people. Anyone whether awakened or not can be affected by words such as stupid and idiot. You have no idea what has happened in their life such as continually being called stupid throughout school.

It is time that we post videos, pictures and post that will support, guide and uplift people so they can see how amazing they are.

For anyone that is struggling I encourage you to not take notice of any posters that don’t help you and even go so far as to delete the posters, pictures and videos that bring you down. I am more than happy to delete anything that brings me down and if a particular person keeps doing it I unfollow them.

I want all of you to understand how amazing you are and to shine your beautiful light for everyone to see. Allow the Social Media to help you shine by following the tips I have provided. Shine beautiful people.

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My heart wrenching journey with depression

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I never thought that I would be a person who got depressed. I was way to strong for that so it could never happen to me. Well, heck, was I wrong.

I had been struggling with finances for a while which had gotten me down as I normally have enough money to not worry about anything. Without consciously knowing it I was sinking further and further down. Not having work or only getting a couple of days work meant that I was falling behind in the rent. On the days that I didn’t have work I didn’t leave the house and I didn’t even shower. It wasn’t until I couldn’t stand it any further or I got called into work that I had a shower.

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It was so easy to just sit at home and play games or just look at Facebook. It took minimal energy and brain work to do this and was so easy just to sit on the couch. The more I did this the more I wanted to do this and was happy if I didn’t see anyone. I wasn’t seeing anything wrong with this as in the past I had been quite happy with my own company which is why I didn’t feel that I was slowly sinking into depression.

It wasn’t until I started crying a literally everything including my patients stories at work. When this started happening I then knew something was wrong but still didn’t want to admit it to anyone including me. I couldn’t be depressed. It wasn’t possible. No way. I got a little angry at myself for even thinking I could be depressed. Nothing was wrong with me. Not me.

This denial sank me even further into depression and I even got to the point where if there was an easy way out I would have taken it. I couldn’t be bothered though as it took to much energy which I didn’t have. I had a cousin commit suicide so I knew how devastating it could be but when you are in that zone you don’t remember any of this or even really care. All you care about is stopping the pain, whatever that is for the person.

For me it was the pain of loneliness which had been getting stronger and stronger. I have been alone for a while and whilst I had been quite happy with my own company I was over being alone. It had become too much for me and the depression kept getting worse. I had asked people for help stating “I have a block and can’t see what is happening.” Unfortunately no help was forthcoming as I believe people did not want me to be a mirror as they would have then had to look at their own “stuff” which could have been too painful for them. If felt so lonely asking for help and not getting any.

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This picture shows exactly how alone I have felt and even now I have tears in my eyes as I look at this image as it is so painful feeling this alone. No one can know what you are going through as each person is individual in their lessons. I haven’t liked this lesson one bit and even now it still hurts.

A few things has helped me to slowly work my way out of the black hole and one of them was learning how to make my own soap. After I had gotten into financial trouble some beautiful people on a Facebook Soapmaking Group generously sent me soap making supplies that allowed me to continue making soap. Without this I really don’t know how I would have continued. Having something tactile to do such as Soapmaking, knitting, building things etc can really help someone that is depressed as it gives them something to do without thinking of being depressed.

Another thing that helped in the last couple of days was having a dear friend come down and help me declutter my stuff. I had collected a lot of stuff over the last few years and kept putting off throwing the stuff out. It has taken two days to go through the rooms and garage sorting it out and I still have to organise what is left but already I can feel the energy changing in myself and the unit. I am still struggling and even now feel like crying. The pain is still there in a large amount and really hurts. It will take a while for for it to get better due to me denying that the depression was even there. I have started looking at the world with new eyes which is a much better place to be.

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The biggest step that you can take with someone that has depression is hearing their cry for help. Even if you are not in a place to help then why not contact another friend that maybe able to help. Knowing that you have friends that can help you really helps a person from sinking lower into depression. You can always help someone even if you don’t think you are.

“You may feel that you are alone because that is how it feels. You are never alone and remembering this is an important step in realising that depression is a problem. You will be okay”

Motivational Monday

I love this theme that I have each Monday on my Facebook Page Sacred Blessing Essences. It is a great day to help motivate yourself and others by posting motivational posts, posters, pictures and videos. You may be feeling down as things are not going the way you want or it is taking too long. Then why not spend a short time posting what motivates you? You will find that your mood changes as you post these and you will be amazed at how it can help motivate others. Need a kick up the bum? Share a poster that helps you get a kick up the bum. Are you procrastinating? Share a poster that inspires you to get the most important things done. Do you have a tip that can motivate people? Then share that as it can help others.

When you help others, you help yourself.”

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Why don’t people listen?

Why don’t people listen?

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Why is that people don’t want to listen to what you have to say? Are they so caught up in their lives and what they have to say that they don’t even realise that you are talking.

“The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.”

— Ralph Nichols

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I have had this experience so many times that it has helped to make me a better listener which is really helpful as a Medical Intuitive Practitioner and Teacher.

“One friend, one person who is truly understanding, who takes the trouble to listen to us as we consider a problem, can change our whole outlook on the world.”

— Dr. E. H. Mayo

It is amazing how some people can not see what they are doing and then say that they have been told they are great listeners.  Do they understand how frustrating it is to have them ask a question and when you start answering they carry on as though you never started?  Do they know how angry you get because you feel as though you have nothing important to say and are not worthy of listening to.

“You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.”

— M. Scott Peck

I have learnt over time that it is not about me at all and it is always about them.  It has been a very hard lesson for me to learn as I used to take everything personally, feeling very hurt and worthless.

How then do we learn to listen to people?

  • Being quiet and letting the person talk is the first step.
  • Don’t think about your reply. Instead just listen to what they are saying/
  • Repeat what they have said back to them in a shortened version such as “What you are saying is…………”
  • If you don’t want to hear what someone has to say then don’t ask questions.
  • Understand that what you do and say can really affect the other person.

Listening is such an important skill to have and it can make all the difference to the person you are listening to.

Dear Sugar. I am saying goodbye

My dear sugar we have had such a lovely relationship since I was young. I remember hiding you in my bedroom so I could have you whenever I wanted. Oh the joys of late night munchies. Do you remember the night that we stayed up all night watching movies? You were so good to me and kept me awake all night. What about the dinner party with our friends and the fun we had picking which of you we wanted out of the pack?

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I have so enjoyed you for so long and we have shared some great times with our family and friends. I wonder at times why I had to wake up and realise that it just wasn’t possible to have a relationship with you anymore. It has been devastating to know that I have to divorce you for my own good. There are times I wonder whether I should continue my relationship with you as it has been so great. Then something happens to remind me of why we have to divorce.

Now I am crying as I don’t want to divorce you. Crap. I don’t like the tears as it messes up my face. Okay time to sort my face out. I will be back.

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Okay. Now I am back so no more going down memory lane. I remember when I first started learning about sugar and what it does to the body I was angry as I did not want to hear the message. I have been in denial for many years now as I enjoyed what the sugar was doing for me.

As time has gone by I have slowly lessened my relationship with sugar although I have had many set backs and I have loved gorging myself on sugar especially Magnum Ice creams and Cadbury Blocks, family size of course.

I recently had a week away where I only had sugar a couple of times and then when I came home I didn’t have any for a couple of days. I was feeling great and then saw a soft drink in the fridge and thought oh well I can have that to help get rid of all the sugar in the house.

Well heck. The reaction was instant. I didn’t know what hit me. I was immediately angry, fed up, peeved off to put it nicely and everything bothered me. I later realised that my sense of balance and depth perception was out as I was running into things that normally I wouldn’t.

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I really couldn’t believe the reaction I had to sugar. I was absolutely dumbfounded. I had recently repeated the Medical Intuition Modules I to IV which help you to understand the body in a metaphysical way. Because I repeated the courses I was even more open to what my body was telling me which is why I had the reaction that I did.

It was great to have these reactions as it helps explain why unnatural sugar is not good for the body. For anyone that is waking up and wanting to improve their life sugar is definitely a no no as it helps to keep you unconscious in regards to thoughts and hearing your body talk as well as feeding all the stories you have. The stories could be “I am not good enough”, “No one will love me”, and any other story that you can think of.

To understand what unnatural sugar does to the body we can look at it metaphysically and physically.  My wonderful Medical Intuitive Teacher Jean Sheehan has written a wonderful article about the pancreas and the following is a small section of it.

“THE MEDICAL INTUITIVE MEANINGS OF THE PANCREAS”

           ” The pancreas is very important on a metaphysical level as it is referred to as the subconscious brain. Who would have thought that by having sugar this organ will totally change your perception and create a world of ‘negative perception’ and block your creativity? This endocrine metabolises sugar in the blood stream however when an individual has sugar, it keeps the mind in at state of limbo and disconnected to the God within and the higher brain or known as the higher self can not get through. The sugar seems to block the connection between the two hemispheres of the brain and the bridge between the conscious and subconscious brains  – intuition.”
Sugar can create anger in some people as it did me as well as affecting the moods in people. “This moodiness is the change on a metaphysical level where the emotion anxiety is triggered. Then the children react in fear, the outcome arguments, and unexplained perceptions from teenagers from parental comments and more. The anger is stirred as the sugar goes to the liver – organ of anger”. Copyright Jean Sheehan 2013 www.absoluteempowerment.com
Understanding what sugar does in my body helps me to understand why it had such a dramatic effect on me when I hadn’t had sugar for a few days. I understand why I felt angry so quickly which is due to the fact that I was working on a higher vibration and then to have sugar I crashed really quickly and was then working with the lower chakras. This is why I had the reaction that I did and why when I have sugar my day does not go as well as expected.
I am so much more aware of what sugar does to my body and am now able to use all the tools, skills and knowledge that I have learnt through the courses to be able to move through the emotions and moods very quickly. Understanding the other areas that are affected and why was important to me so that I could then use everything that I had to bring my body back into alignment so that I am then able to continue though the day with harmony.
I am far from perfect and I have had sugar since coming back a month ago except I am now more aware which makes it easier. Why not experiment yourself and see what happens. You may be amazed at what happens I your body. You can read the full article here http://www.absoluteempowerment.com/the-pancreas.php

 

Standing in your power

“How do you know you’re standing in your power? You’re empowered; you don’t want for anything. You’re not wishing, comparing yourself to other people. You’re happy to be who you are.”

Debbie Ford

The most wonderful thing that I have learnt over the years is how to stand in my power. This doesn’t mean being aggressive, agro, saying no to every opportunity, not doing what you want to do, not looking after yourself etc. It means knowing exactly what you want in life and respecting yourself to go for it. It means looking after yourself so that you have the energy to do anything that you want to do.

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Saying NO.

Saying NO is a great way to stand in your power. Are you the type of person who says YES to everything even though you know it is wrong? Do you fear that saying NO will mean that no one will like you? Who cares!!!  What is most important is you. You need to do what is right for you. If you do not look after yourself, who is going to look after you? It my sound selfish except that is exactly what you need to do.  Take it one step at time and it will become easier the more times that you say NO and look after yourself.

Standing up for yourself.

Learning to stand up for yourself does not mean attacking everyone that says something to you. It is knowing when to say something and when to just say “Thank You” and walk away. One of the hardest lesson that I have learnt and am still learning is when to say nothing and walk away.  I have learnt that not getting involved in the drama is such a healthy way of living. It is great to remain detached, which is different from remaining emotionless, instead you know that you don’t want to be involved in the gossip etc.

Looking after yourself.

By looking after yourself you are standing in your power.  What do you really want to do? What makes you really happy? Go for it. Do what you want and do not worry about what others think.

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Ahhhh. Summer

“it’s a smile, it’s a kiss, it’s a sip of wine … it’s summertime!” 
― Kenny Chesney

 

I so love Summertime with the beautiful weather, the long afternoons, the parties and more. I am blessed to live very close to a beach so I get to walk in the water and feel the sand underneath my feet. It is a time where I have more time off work to enjoy the days with friends.

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Summertime is a great time to express yourself, to feel the faith in yourself and to trust yourself as you are the wonderful person who has created your reality and are continuing to create your reality.   What are your dreams for the future? Have you made any plans? Why not keep a journal on how you will achieve your dreams and writing in it everyday will keep your goals visible to the mind. 

What to write in the journal:

  1. What your dreams are.
  2. How you are going to achieve your dreams.
  3. Step by step on what you are going to do.
  4. Who can help you achieve your dreams.
  5. What equipment do you need.
  6. Anything else you can think of.

Why not find a beautiful journal like this and start writing today. Make time every day to do this at the same time to get into a rhythm of writing. Once you get into the rhythm you will find it extremely easier to do. Being Summer why not find that beautiful spot that you really love to write in your journal. It is best to write in your journal away from family and friends to reduce the distractions. Make today the day that you go out and buy yourself a beautiful journal and pen to write with.

Summer is a great time to start the activities that you have been putting off. What do you want to do?  Do you want to learn how to paint?

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Do you want to learn how to scuba dive?

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Do you want to travel?

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Make summer the time that your dreams come true. You can do anything that you set your mind to and now is the time to do this. Be conscious of the fact that every word you say is creating your reality. Why not take a deep breath before you speak to allow time for your brain to unite with your heart so that you speak from your heart.  I have been blessed to have developed tools, skills and knowledge that I have learnt in the courses I have taken. Would you like to learn more about these? Pop on over to http://www.facebook.com/SacredBlessingEssences where you can find loads of information and where you can find the courses that I am going to teach.

Remember that Summer is a time to be enjoyed. Go out there and have fun. Take time off to be with you family and friends. Enjoy our beautiful Summer. 

How to love yourself.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.  Lucille Ball

How much do you love yourself?  Do you know what it means to love yourself?  It has taken me a long time to understand what it means by falling in love with yourself.  To feel the love for myself has tears in my eyes even as I am writing this. It is so beautiful to be able to look at my body and say “I Love You” and “I Am Love.”

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How do you fall in love with yourself? That is such a great question. How do you do it? I can’t give you all the answers as you need to find your own way of falling in love.   All I can do is tell you my story and let you take it from there.

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I would love to be able to do this when I look at the mirror as that is how much I love myself.  This is such a big change for me. I grew up not knowing what love was as I never saw my parents show love, I never heard I Love You, or received hugs.  When you do not know any of this then you are not able to understand how to love yourself.

I have been very blessed with my friends over the years as I have learnt so much from them. I had one friend on my life who taught me how to hug and now I am told that I give the best hugs. This was the start of understanding myself . Over the years I have completed many courses and it was during these that I learnt how important it was to put myself first.

This may seem to go against everything you believe although how can you look and care for others when you haven’t looked after yourself fist. When you care for yourself you have endless amounts of energy, compassion love etc and you feel less inclined to get involved in conflict.  I find that the drama that I find at work doesn’t bother me as much anymore and that I don’t get involved as much as I used to. It is such a great feeling to remain detached and be able to watch the drama go by.

If I didn’t put myself first and truly love myself I would have never reached this level of  awareness.  If you want to truly love yourself you need to search deep inside and find out why you don’t. Enjoy the Journey.

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Random Acts Of Kindness

“When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as though something inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel.” Rabbi Harold Kushner.

Random Acts of Kindness are so much fun. You get to do something else for another person without any thought of the other person knowing what you have done.  By doing it anonymously you get to see the smile on their face and know that you have put that smile on their face.

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What can be a Random Act of Kindness?

  1. Paying for a coffee etc for the person behind you in the line.
  2. Sending a friend money without them knowing who it is from.
  3. Paying for a massage or something else for your female friend who doesn’t do anything for herself.
  4. A simple letter letting someone know how your feel.
  5. Sending money to a charity.
  6. Donating books to a charity.
  7. Spending a day volunteering.
  8. Helping someone with yard work.
  9. Leaving groceries on someone’s doorstep.
  10. Holding the door open for someone.
  11. Letting someone go ahead of you in the line.
  12. Make a new friend today.
  13. Smiling at people in the street.
  14. Volunteering your time at a shelter.

Anything you can think of is a Random Act of Kindness.  Why not practice some today and know that you have helped someone with your gift.

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My hat of to all parents.

“What it’s like to be a parent: It’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever do but in exchange it teaches you the meaning of unconditional love.”  Nicholas Sparks.

I have been thinking about parents lately and what it takes to be a parent. My parents did the best job that they knew how and I dearly love them for that. I am wondering if I would ever be able to be a parent and whether I ever will considering that I am 40 and single.  Do I want to be a parent? Some days absolutely yes and other days maybe. Could I really do it? Do I really want to do it? These are questions that I keep asking myself and I still do not have the answers.

I certainly do want to meet and have a relationship with a man and the question is do I want to have kids at this late stage in my life. Would it be fair to the children? I am sure that these are questions that many women have asked over the many centuries. I am asking from my personal point of view. 

It is hard to know what to do considering I am single although these questions do need to be asked. In my line of work I see many children and their parents. There are many times I laugh to myself because I say how can the parents feed their children that food and drink, why are they letting them get away with that behaviour, why are they rewarding such bad behaviour and more. As soon as I think this I laugh to myself and say what am I thinking as I have no idea how I would react in the same situation.

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I do understand my parents love even though I have never raised any children myself.  I have been blessed to have friends that are amazing parents and know that I will always be able to seek their help if I ever become a parent myself. I take my hat off to all parents as I know that you are doing the best job that you know how. Congratulations for being a parent and having the best job in the world.

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How to say no to someone.

I witnessed something at Uni this week that really made me think.  A student was offered a soft drink by a lovely lady and the student said no repeatedly getting very embarrassed.  It made me think about the giver and the receiver and how each might feel.

“The only gift I have to give, is the ability to receive. If giving is a gift, and it surely is, then my gift to you is to allow you to give to me. 
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― Jarod Kintz

 

Why would someone offer to do something for you in the first place?

There are many reasons that a person offers to do something for you or buy you something.

  1. They may have been where you are now and understand how hard it can be especially if you feel you are alone and can’t let anyone know how you feel. 
  2. They may be a people pleasure and absolutely love giving to people, even at the detriment to themselves.
  3. They may want to have power over you.
  4. They may just love being able to give to someone else.

No matter what the reason that a person has for offering to help you it is a good idea to think about how you say no. What you say can affect that person for a long time without you even knowing. Our words can hurt or heal and they can affect us more than anyone else can. Taking three deep breaths before you reply allows you to come from the heart with love and allows you to not answer immediately. This means that you can think about what you are going to say before you say it.

 

Why would you say no to someone’s offer of help?

  1. You may be embarrassed that someone could see that you need a helping hand.
  2. You do not know how to say thank you as you have never been shown how to.
  3. You think that the other person is trying to make you feel bad that you are not able to pay for what you need.
  4. You may have never been shown that it is okay to receive.

No matter the reasons it is okay to say Yes Thank You. It is also okay to say no as long as you are aware why you are saying it and how you say it.

“Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.” ~Josh Billings

 

 

Setting Boundaries.

Saying no or yes is our way of setting boundaries and it is very healthy to set boundaries. By setting boundaries we are letting people know what we want out of life and what we will allow in.  It also shows that although we love people we love ourselves more by saying no or yes. Be okay with setting boundaries and your life can flow so much easier.

“The most important distinction anyone can ever make in their life is between who they are as an individual and their connection with others.” 
― Anné LindenBoundaries in Human Relationships: How to Be Separate and Connected

 

Enjoy learning how to set boundaries.

 

 

Gratitude is the most beautiful thing that you can do for yourself.

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

Melody Beattie

What a beautiful saying by Melody. I have decided that I need to post what I am grateful for each day which will help me and also it may encourage you to have a look at you life and realise how much you have to be grateful for. 

 

Every Saturday I have decided that it is a ME Day. This means that everything I do on this day is for me only. This could mean going out to lunch with friends, shopping for the fun of it, doing something crazy, having a relaxing day or anything else. My day starts with a two hour French speaking lesson which I am thoroughly enjoying.

 

I am so grateful that I decided that it was time for me and I actually followed through on this.  I have started many projects and not followed through on many so for me to continue is so fantastic.  

 

Today was was such a beautiful day weather wise which carried over into the lovely bus drivers I had. Although I think one is a frustrated racing car driver. Hee hee.  It was a lovely bus ride to my class and I had a few minutes to relax before class. Learning another language has really opened myself up to a new culture.  By opening myself up to new knowledge I am keeping my brain fresh. 

 

I have met four lovely people including the teacher and there is so much laughter in the class which makes a great environment for learning. Laughter released the endorphins which is our happy chemical and helps to keep us uplifted. I love laughing and especially when it is the belly laugh that makes your sides ache.

 

To then go and have some fun shopping for necessities, having fun doing this, and having a beautiful juice topped of my morning. 

 

It was a very fast trip home with my racing car bus driver. I got to catch up with two lovely ladies and met three new people. I am so grateful for the connections that I am making.  

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How being sick benefited me part 2.

“The thoughts we think and the words we speak create our experiences.”

Louise L. Hay

 

In Part 1 I wrote about my story in relation to Asthma and Eczema. I wrote what Louise L. Hay had written about Asthma and this time I am writing about Eczema and then I will provide you with tools and tips to help you see where your Asthma or Eczema might be coming from.

 

The definition for eczema is: Eczema (atopic dermatitis) is a recurring, non-infectious, inflammatory skin condition where the skin becomes dry, red, itchy and scaly and in severe cases may weep, bleed and crust over which causes the person suffering.  If the eczema is really bad the person may suffer from body images issues as well. 

 

According to Louise L. Hay the skin is about:

  1. Protecting our individuality.
  2. Anxiety.
  3. Fear.
  4. Old buried gunk.
  5. I am being threatened.
  6. Breath-taking antagonism and
  7. Mental eruptions.

When we compare this to Asthma which is: a disorder of respiration with laboured breathing, a feeling of constriction in the chest and coughing. Asthma can be life threatening.

According to Louise L. Hay:

  1. Represents the ability to take in life.
  2. Fear or refusal to take in life fully.
  3. Not feeling the right to take up space or even exist.
  4. Smother love.
  5. Inability to breathe for one’s self.
  6. Feeling stifled.
  7. Suppressed crying.
  8. In babies and children it is Fear of life and Not wanting to be here.

 

It is interesting how both Asthma and Eczema are related medically as they say that if you have eczema you can also get asthma. This was the case for me as I had eczema and then later on as a teenager I got asthma. Does any of this relate to you or someone you know? 

 

Lets start art looking at some tools that can help you see where it has come and what you can do to heal the issue.

The first step is to ask yourself some questions.

  1. What were you doing when you first remember developing the condition?
  2. What emotions were coming up for you at that time?
  3. What is coming up for you now when you think about your condition?
  4. Any other question that you can think of.

Write down the answers on a piece of paper and have a good look at them. What is coming up for you?  What emotions are you feeling? You may be thinking that this is a waste of time and if you do that is okay. I can tell you from experience that doing this really does make a difference as we need to take a look deep inside of us and see what needs to be healed. 

 

Lets try an experiment.

Go to the mirror and look yourself in the eye. Can you say I Love You and mean it? Can you say I Am Amazing and mean it? Can you look at your body without clothes and say You Are Beautiful and mean it? Can you say I love you and accept you exactly as you are?   If you can’t say yes to any of these then there are still some issues to deal with.

 

Lets try and exercise.

Take a piece of paper and finish this sentence I Should _______________. Do this five times. After doing that say why you should. You may come up with answers like My father told me I should, Because I have to be perfect, Because I am afraid not to, Because I am too lazy, because I am too worthless etc.

Now let’s change this around and start the sentence with If I really wanted to, I could ______________.  See how by turning this around it totally changes everything and you can see the situation differently.  Now that you have written those sentences ask yourself Why haven’t you? What is stopping you? You may think of things like I don’t want to, I am afraid, or Because I am not good enough. How does it feel when you say these things to yourself? 

 

How are you feeling after doing these two exercises? Has anything shifted for you? Do not worry of something hasn’t as that is okay especially if it is really deep.  Now ow is a good time to take three deep breaths and have a glass of water. Even doing these simple exercises takes a lot of energy which is why you need to breath and have a glass of water. 

 

Now that you have done these exercises, had a few deep breaths and had a glass of water let’s look at other exercises we can do.

 

What negative messages did you hear or still do hear?

On a piece of paper list all of the negative message you heard or still hear and where they came from such as parents, teachers, friends etc. As you are writing these what emotions are you feeling? Make sure that you take your time with this to get the most benefit from this exercise. These are the thoughts that need to be looked at with love and to be changed into positive loving thoughts.

 

Changing the negative thoughts into positive.

We need to look at whether you believe it to be true or not. Ask yourself Is it true or real? There are only two answers that you should come up which are Yes or No. It is true if you believe it to be true and It is not true if you believe it isn’t.  The negative thoughts that you had written down now rewrite as positive thoughts. Change the wording so that it becomes positive. 

Let’s try one. The negative thought is I don’t want to be here and I want to go home. Now change that around to I love living here as I know that home is in my heart. Can you see how by turning the negative into positive it helps you to see the thought differently. Try this with all of the negative thoughts that you came up with. 

 

Now let’s look at some problems and the beliefs that may go with them.

Problem is Financial Disaster and Belief is I am not worthy of having money.

Problem is No friends and Belief is Nobody loves me.

Problem is Work and Belief is I am not good enough.

Problem is Always pleasing others and Belief is I never get my way.

Does any of these sound familiar to you? What other beliefs might you have? Why not write them as above with problem and belief. Our thoughts do manifest into reality and by looking at them and changing them we can change our lives.

 

This is one of the ways that I have changed my life and was able to heal my eczema and asthma. There are many other tools that I have learnt and I will be talking about them in future blogs. Wishing you wonderful and positive thoughts.

 

In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect, whole, and complete. I recognise my body as a good friend. Each cell in my body has Divine Intelligence. I listen to what it tells me, and know that its advice is valid. I am always safe, and Divinely protected and guided. I choose to be healthy and free. All is well in my world.